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Writing Prompts: Deeper Questions for Self-Discovery and Transformation

Deeper Questions

Not all questions are meant to be answered quickly. Some are meant to be lived with.

They arrive quietly, often in moments of transition, uncertainty, or inner restlessness. And instead of offering clarity right away, they ask something deeper of us: attention, honesty, and presence.

We tend to think of transformation as something that happens when we finally find the right answer—when we figure out what to do, who to be, or how to move forward. But in my experience, change often begins more subtly. It begins with a question that won’t let us stay on the surface. A question that interrupts our usual ways of thinking. A question that opens space where certainty used to be. A question that brings us back to ourselves.

These questions are not here to be completed. They are here to be explored through open hearted presence. 

You might write in response to one question per day for a few minutes. You might return to it over weeks or seasons. You might notice that your answer changes as you do.

See if you can allow the questions to move slowly through you. Let them reveal what is ready to be seen.

See if you can practice allowing writing to become a way of listening more deeply than thought alone can reach.

Writing Prompts

Identity, Values, and Becoming

  1. Who are you?
  2. What top five values are most important to you?
  3. What are your dreams?
  4. Who would you be if you lived (or have lived) into your dreams?
  5. Who would you be if you don’t live into your dreams?
  6. What are your greatest strengths?
  7. What are your greatest challenges?
  8. How do you feel about yourself?
  9. What quality do you love most in yourself?
  10. What quality or habit in yourself do you struggle the most with?
  11. What are your growing edges?

Influence, Memory, and the Shape of Your Story

12. What three people have influenced you most?

    1. What is the most important thing your mother taught you?
    2. What are your three fondest memories from childhood?
    3. What life lesson have you learned the hard way?
    4. What are your top three regrets?
    5. What aspects of your life feel unlived?
    6. What dreams have you lost sight of?

    Emotional Truth and Inner Life What is your greatest fear?

    19. What is your greatest fear?

    1. What keeps you awake at night?
    2. What brings you joy?
    3. What breaks your heart these days?
    4. Where do you find a sense of awe and wonder?
    5. What makes you angry?
    6. What is compassion, and how do you express it?
    7. What is empathy?
    8. Are you an honest person?
    9. Do you tell the truth, even when it hurts?
    10. When have you not told the truth and how did it impact you?
    11. Do you practice staying present with your feelings?

    Place, Belonging, and the Living World

    31. What helps you to feel at home in the world?

    32. Where do you feel most at home?

    33. What do you love about the places you’ve called home?

    34. Do you feel a sense of belonging with the Earth?

    35. How can you grow this sense of belonging?

    36. What do you love most in nature?

    37. Where does your drinking water come from?

    38. What birds inhabit the land near where you live?

      Meaning, Purpose, and Contribution

      39. What gives you a sense of meaning in your life?

      40. What gives you a sense of purpose?

      41. What do you want to do to try to make the world a better place?

      42. What does it mean to live a good life?

      43. If you could change one thing in the world, what would it be?

        Time, Mortality, and What Matters Most

        44. What regrets might you have on your deathbed?

        45. Before you die, what are the things you want to do?

        46. Before you die, what are some of the places you want to see?

        47. What does it mean to die a good death?

          Attention, Perception, and Everyday Awakening

          48. What do you love most about being in this world?

            49. What five beautiful things have you noticed today?

            50. What is the place in you that you most want to heal?

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              About Jen Johnson

              Jen Johnson is a mindfulness coach, counselor, author, and photographer. She teaches mindfulness, writing, and nature practices for refuge and renewal.