Change and opportunity are intertwined. When we see change as opportunity, we become more empowered in our life. Sometimes we have hopes, dreams, or plans that are shattered due to a change in circumstances or other influences over which we have no control. At first, an unexpected change in plans may feel overwhelming, but if […]
Being vs doing. Modern culture values doing over being. Too much doing can increase our stress and leave us feeling like we’ll never be enough. In order to remain healthy and balanced, we need time to relax and simply be. Our culture values busyness as a symbol of importance and success, but chronic busyness can […]
Improving wellbeing is one of the many positive outcomes of practicing mindfulness and meditation. When we lose our sense of aliveness and wellbeing, whether we lose it to the daily grind, loss, grief, or depression, we can reawaken it through meditation. The natural instinct during difficult times is to do nothing or to keep doing […]
When we cultivate clear seeing, are able to see clearly what is happening in our lives and relate to our experience with acceptance, friendliness, and compassion. Being willing to see the truth of our lives requires a willingness to relate with things as they are instead of our habitual pattern of relating with things as […]
How to live mindfully – Lessons from Eos: Live in the moment. Take time to enjoy chasing flies and other simple things in life. Forgive, let go and move on. Get up early and kiss the people you love. When someone is hurting, lick their tears. Spend more time being and less time doing. If […]
Live mindfully, and live well. When we begin a new habit to support our wellbeing, we are filled with the motivating energy of our good intentions. Sometimes this energy helps us to execute a new behavior, and other times the energy of our intentions fizzles out before we have the opportunity to put the new […]
Turning toward discomfort, we release suffering. Our tendency is to brace against physical, emotional, and mental discomfort or to turn away from it. The discomfort may be physical pain, illness, or limitations, feelings of anxiety, sadness, grief, depression, anger, disappointment, unworthiness, or rejection, or negative and judgmental thoughts toward ourselves or others. When we turn […]
Living well involves setting clear intentions and taking the next right steps in each moment to realize those intentions. It means taking responsibility for our own wellbeing and making that one of our top priorities. Living well means doing what we know will improve or maintain our wellbeing and becoming willing to push through those […]
The mindful way through grief involves learning to ride the waves of feelings without allowing them to knock us over. Life brings both loss and joy. We mistakenly expect mostly joy, and this causes suffering. We are at our best when we use mindfulness practices to learn how to turn toward our experience skillfully, even […]
In managing irritability with mindfulness, we bring awareness to the mood and treat it with kindness and compassion. We all get irritable, especially when we’re under stress. And if that stress is chronic, our irritability threshold is shorter, meaning that we’re quicker to feel irritable and quicker to react or act out the irritability. Acting […]